TYPING IN FULL CAPS MAKES IT LOOK LIKE YOU’RE SCREAMING WHEN IT’S ACTUALLY A WAY TO GET PEOPLE’S ATTENTION TO DISTRACT YOU FROM THE FACT THAT YOU’RE lonely
Anonymous asked:
So I’m in a new relationship with a boy who is very much not ace. It was important to me for him to know that I was ace, and it actually prevented me from getting together with him for a long time. Because it’s not fair of me to basically deny him the option to have sex, but I know for sure that I don’t want to have it. He’s said things about “maybe later”/“it’s not something we have to worry about now” but it’s obvious he’s worried about it and wants to at some point. It’s very terrifying to me
aroaceconfessions answered:
When you are having a great conversation with a group of people but suddenly they start talking about people they find hot and your ace ass is like
The fact that exclusionists/aphobes tend to have ‘good’ takes on a variety of topics is tainted by the fact that you just know they’re implicitly including asexuals in their post. It’s kinda fucked that I can immediately tell just by post topic and URL that someone is an aphobe, and searching “ace” on their blog is just a verification step. In this year 2019 we stop giving exclusionists a platform and remind ourselves that aro/ace folks have been, are, and always will be members of the LGBT community.
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